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Monday Musings #8 – The paralysis of wanting something too badly. of not finding happiness on the other side of the dream – so we just stick to the dreaming. Sometimes we want something very, very badly. Those who have been on the other side of the interviewing desk can tell you how being. You see, you may enjoy certain people or things but still be just fine without them, and yet "The grass is always greener on the other side.".

For most of us, oj seems it has been a problem since birth, a dilemma that can leave us feeling empty, unfulfilled, and hopeless. And regardless of your life's path, this idea and others like it apply to most, if not all of the negative thoughts we harbor about. wanting something on the side

Fortunately, even in the darkest of circumstances, there's usually a simple fix. Most times, it's honestly just a matter of understanding your emotions and adjusting accordingly.

Now this may not seem so simple at first, but it is with practice. But the way that many of us tend to interpret it is completely wrong, and we miss the true meaning.

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Here's the thing: More often than you'd think, we do wanting something on the side desire someone or something because of pure desirability. Desirability increases exponentially once we know we can't have the person or thing of concern. You see, you may enjoy certain people or things but still be just fine without them, and yet once a line is drawn to say that you cannot have them, your desire is amplified dramatically.

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You can keep this yearning in check by realizing that it's simply a side effect. I tell my sister all the time, there is no truer phrase to have ever existed than this one.

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A perfect example is this:. When you're at home, you may dream of being on vacation, but after a week spent away from home, you're extremely anxious to return.

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And yet the day after you arrive back home, you're missing the five-star resort you just came. Now of course, this exact scenario doesn't play out this way every time you travel, but I'm sure you understand what I'm referring to.

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And this very same mind trick wantijg out in every aspect of our lives- in the foods we eat, our daily schedule, what we decide to do for entertainment, etc The wanting something on the side is, while we often feel like we hate change, our minds love variety.

But it's important to remember that our mind naturally plays these games with us when thinking about relationships, self-concept, and major life decisions.

You break sdie with someone, and all of a sudden, it's like you forgot why. And so you get back together with them, which turns into a quick and easy reminder as to why you broke up in the first place.

The fact is, sometimes regardless of the situation, we long for what we don't have, whether it's worthy of longing for or not. But this is a very calming thing to know when you're emotional. If you realize that you're only upset because your mind is playing tricks, you can fend feelings off. Wanting something on the side friend Alex, a fraternal brother of mine and a fellow Odyssey writer, shared this phrase on Twitter just last week, and it applies sire to what I'm getting at.

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You may have the most amazing personality, the best girlfriend, and some great talents After thousands of years of progressing, the human brain is hardwired to seek improvement and to see what it can do better.

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It's a destructive way of thinking, but it fades away once you learn to focus on. Wanting something on the side so at this point, you might be thinking, "This is great and all, but understanding that my feelings are a side effect won't help me.

And being told that I should focus on myself won't get me to do it. But if that's how you feel, here's what you may be missing: Fighting negativity at the root goes a long way towards destroying it.

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We will never completely eliminate our negative thoughts, but we can always work on them to become much happier. With practice, this knowledge can help you immensely.

It may not happen today, or tomorrow, or even next week, but over time you will learn and you'll notice a real impact. We always want what we can't have, but that doesn't mean we can't have what we want We always want what we can't. Subscribe to our Newsletter Wanting something on the side you for signing up! Check your inbox for the latest from Odyssey.

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